Effective Date: 9 January 2024
Safe Dating Tips for Hooked
At Hooked, we want you to build meaningful and lasting connections while ensuring your safety. Whether you're messaging someone new or preparing for an in-person meeting, here are some important tips to help you date safely and confidently.
1. Protect Your Personal Information
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- Keep it private: Don’t share personal information like your home address, workplace, or financial details early on.
- Wait before sharing contact info: Use Hooked’s messaging feature until you feel comfortable sharing your phone number or social media handles.
2. Stay on the App for Communication
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- Use in-app messaging: Until you trust someone, it's best to communicate through Hooked. This provides an extra layer of privacy and security.
- Be cautious of moving to other platforms too soon: If someone insists on switching to another messaging app early in your conversations, take it as a red flag.
3. Look for Red Flags
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- Watch out for inconsistent stories: If someone’s story or background changes frequently, it could be a sign they’re not being truthful.
- Beware of emotional pressure: Someone pushing for quick emotional or financial involvement may not have good intentions.
- Avoid suspicious requests: Never send money or provide financial assistance to someone you haven’t met in person, no matter how convincing their story is.
4. Get to Know Them First
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- Take your time: Don’t rush into meeting someone in person. Spend time getting to know them through messages and calls.
- Video chat before meeting: Consider scheduling a video call through Hooked’s features to confirm the person you’re talking to matches their profile.
5. Plan Safe First Dates
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- Meet in public places: When meeting for the first time, choose a busy, well-lit public location like a café or restaurant.
- Arrange your own transportation: Drive yourself or use a rideshare service. Avoid letting your date pick you up from home.
- Tell a friend: Share your plans with a friend or family member, including details like where you’re going and when you expect to return.
6. Trust Your Instincts
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- Listen to your gut: If something feels off or makes you uncomfortable, trust your instincts and take a step back.
- Don’t feel pressured: If your date is moving too fast or making you uncomfortable, it’s okay to set boundaries or even end the date early.
7. Avoid Alcohol or Drugs
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- Stay alert: On a first date, it’s important to keep your mind clear. Avoid excessive drinking or taking substances that could impair your judgment or awareness.
8. Keep Control of Your Personal Safety
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- Stay aware of your surroundings: Especially on a first date, remain conscious of your environment and the people around you.
- Know your exits: When meeting in person, be aware of how you can leave quickly if you feel uncomfortable.
9. Report Suspicious Behavior
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- Don’t hesitate to report: If someone behaves inappropriately or makes you feel uncomfortable, report their profile to the Hooked team. We take reports seriously and will investigate to maintain a safe community.
10. Be Mindful of Scams
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- Avoid too-good-to-be-true offers: Be cautious of people who make grand promises or ask for financial help early in your connection.
- Beware of online-only relationships: Scammers may avoid meeting in person while attempting to build trust. Always question why someone might be avoiding real-life meetings.
By following these safe dating tips, you can enjoy a positive experience on Hooked while protecting yourself and focusing on building genuine, meaningful relationships.